THE RULES OF LOVE – FOR WOMEN

The flowers were blooming. The sun was shining bright. The birds were singing. The sky was that perfect ‘blue’. The world seemed to be in your favor; as you walked up to the man of your dreams. He looked at you and smiled that perfect smile. You could swear you say a twinkle in his smile.

You look deep into those blue eyes; and your heart skips a beat. He opens his mouth to speak. You hold your breath. Finally, like music to your ears, he says the three words you’ve waited to hear for so long.

Falling in love is so beautiful and so EASY!!! Staying in love – Now that’s where the problem arises!

Take our advice, woman! Keep these rules in mind; and stay happily in love. (Well, we don’t guarantee it, but it’s worth the try!)

Doubting Thomas

Well, well, well! Don’t shy away because we hit the nail on the head. You can’t go around questioning him all the time.

“Where were you?”
“Who were you with?”
“Why are you so late?”
“Why do you have a mullet?”
“Why on earth would you want more tattoos?”

We’re going to break this down for you; and we’re going to do the harsh way. No sugar coating for you!
When you ask him all these questions, all he hears is ‘Where blah…blah…blah…?” “Who blah…blah…blah?” The moment he hears a statement that begins with a ‘wh’ question; he is most likely to switch off in the head. Stop interrogating him like he is a murder suspect; and let him breathe a little.

Why isn’t he calling? * sob sob *

So you had a great first date. The guy is a banker, sings in a band on the weekends, knows how to shake a leg, and is great looking. He’s the best date you’ve ever had. You thought you guys hit it off well, but now he just isn’t calling you.

Get over it woman! If he isn’t calling you, maybe he just isn’t into you. Get your bags, wear those heels; and move on!!! Like the ‘He’s Just Not Into You’ star Scarlett Johansson put it, ‘If he doesn’t want you, then he isn’t worth it.’

You give some respect, You take some respect!

That’s the way the game works. You got to ‘communicate’. Tell him if something bothers you. Don’t expect him to decode it like he’s some Mayan god. He is no mind reader. He’s just your sweetheart. Talk to him, let him get to know you better.

Don’t let this get one sided. He may be a man, but he needs to talk his heart out sometimes as well. Create opportunities for him to talk to you sometimes. Trust us on this one, when your man finally begins to talk, you’ll be surprised at how much can flow out of there. And you thought you talk too much!!!

Superman To The Rescue

This one might seem like stating the obvious; but men have always liked to feel like the superior ones, when it comes to being the provider. They want to feel like the one’s who are meant to protect their damsels in distress. It all began with Adam and Eve; and Eve being created from his ribs. The whole idea being that he would have to protect her. When you’re battling an idea that is as old as the existence of this world, there’s not much you can do, is there?

We don’t mean that you go around batting your eyelashes the whole day. But doing that once in a while didn’t hurt anyone, did it! Let him believe that you need him around while doing certain tasks. Let him feel like Superman.

I Am Your Wondergirl

So you know that he likes to play ‘Superman’ sometimes; but that doesn’t mean the other end of the spectrum doesn’t exist. Remember how he likes to talk bout ‘issues’ sometimes now. You got him onto it, didn’t you!

So when he’s talking about things that mean a lot to him; like problems at his workplace, arguments with his mother, the Yankees losing a game – be there for him. Hold his hand. Let him know that he has a strong woman who’ll take care of him, when he isn’t in his game! Doing this will let the power equation be balanced as well. He’s happy and so are you!

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