http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com Astonishing Lifestyle Sat, 21 Jan 2012 11:01:27 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html#comments Sat, 07 Nov 2009 04:45:55 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=612 Mismatch of libidos can happen with most of the passionate couples. It is a point in the relationship where one partner feels over drive for the sex and another lacks interest in sex. This is the most common seen practice in couples which even takes toll on relationship. This happens either a lover can get hurt with the behavior of other partner or sexual desire i.e. if the lover refuses to do. It is even disappointing sometimes.

1. What exactly it is?

   One partner has a high need for sex while another is fine without doing it for many weeks and don’t even miss it. In this case the couple has mismatched libido. Libido is the sexual urge in a person and it could never be one sided. So if your lover is reacting like everyone else you probably get yourself hurt and confused. You will start to think about your sex drive and you will ask questions to your partner.

2. Know the reason

   Sex is a part of life there can be several reasons for which a person lacks interest in sex. Some people rely on sex to keep their marriage happening and if they don’t get it they end up getting hurt. Some people see change in their sex life with the commitment of marriage or engagement. Other reason of lack of interest in sex could children. There may be medical reasons too which lack the people’s sex drive. It is difficult to take a decision without knowing the reason.

3. Getting treated

   This issue can not be discussed with a family doctor. But it is important to discuss this problem and know the medical causes. Getting your partner treated from doctor can boost your partner’s sex drive. It will help to improve your relationship. This may be a cause of hypertension or diabetes in males and menopause can be a reason in females. Physical examinations and proper medications will help the person to gain the sexual urge.

4. Focus on Intimacy

   Every good physician or sexologist will always advice you to focus on intimacy instead of sex. Intimacy is a connection in a relationship which two people share with each other it can either be good or bad. But it is advice to share good intimacy during marriage. By focusing on intimacy in a relation couples improve the quality if sex instead the time or quantity spend during sex.

5. Sex Therapy

   When you come to know about mismatched of libidos try to identify the reasons behind that. You can also take help of sex and marriage therapists which will help you to come up from the problem. Communicate with the therapists freely and get advice for the problem. You can also help yourself by behaving calmly and by not feeling guilty about your sexual desires. Couples can again enjoy sex in their relation with love, desire and passion.

]]> http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html/feed 0 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/want-to-excite-your-partner-here-is-something-about-womens-sexual-response.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/want-to-excite-your-partner-here-is-something-about-womens-sexual-response.html#comments Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:15:36 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=471 To enjoy sex life both the partners expect total response from each other. Women get easily arouse but there are some factors which sometimes lack her response from sex life. Here are some basics which you need to know if you want to do sex for the first time.

1. Not all are same

   Never take her granted for things every women has a different thinking and style of doing love. There are different emotional and hormonal reasons which makes her feel arouse. Some women are very passion able when it comes to sex and some are least interested about the act on the other way some women takes much time to get aroused and some easily get aroused. So depends on how your women is you have to think and act.

2. Know more about Arousal

   There are many signs of arousal in women her pulse rate goes up as she get aroused she starts looking more attractive from her physical body. This attracts both to take part in sexual intercourse which they enjoy. Women’s arousal is easily visible during the act through her vagina becomes wet and open which allow male penis to enter. As she get aroused she enjoy more and more her body sees changes like enlarging of breasts and her nipples get intact. Some women also develop skin on their chest and breasts.

3. Orgasm after Arousal

   When she gets aroused and starts foreplay with the partner she continuously gets multiple orgasms which she enjoys and gain pleasure. At a times she even cry with lots of pleasure and the muscles of her body and face intact with pleasure she easily gets relax too after few minutes. When she enters into sex her body changes she looks fairer then before and even gain weight at times.

4. Types of Sexual Arousal

   As compare to men women get easily aroused. They have three types of sexual arousal mildly sensation, distracting sexual arousal and continuous sexual arousal. Women’s sexual arousal is also dependent on love, passion which she gets from the partner. There are methods also to arouse her.

5. Sexual Dysfunction in Women

   Women get sexual dysfunction because of many medical, emotional, social, hormonal reasons. They always expect their partner to love them and to fulfill their needs with they also want men to focus on their psychological needs. In this case both the partners have to talk with each other and they have to search the ways to come up from women’s sexual dysfunction. Women’s sexual dysfunction can easily cured through bringing love again in her life with the help of understanding partner.

]]> http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/want-to-excite-your-partner-here-is-something-about-womens-sexual-response.html/feed 0 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/women-lacking-interest-in-sex.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/women-lacking-interest-in-sex.html#comments Fri, 30 Oct 2009 14:02:41 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=421 In this fast phase of life many females are lacking interest in sex this is just because of their hectic schedules family and work pressures which force them to go away from their love life and slowly they lack interest in sex.

1. It is common then people think: This is common among females because of many reasons. Sex and desire are dependent on many factors such as relationships, love, and respect etc. In the beginning it attracts and feels to do many times but after sometime it losses interest. Another reason is of losing interest in sex is pregnancy or menopause it is natural for a women’s drive to get high and low over a period of time. Research shows more then 40 percent of women losses interest in sex because of social reasons.
2. Drugs and medicines can be a cause: Diseases like anemia, arthritis, cancer, diabetes, high blood sugar or cardiovascular conditions may limits your sexual urge. Heavy medicines and drugs may distract your interest in sex. Females have to take proper advices and medications from doctors to boost their sex drive. Heavy drugs may also limit your libido. Proper exercises also help in boosting sex life. To cover up from the problem of lack of sex drive females have to avoid such heavy medicines and drugs.
3. Depression slows down your desire: If your life is full of depression, pressure and stress your sex life will suffer. Past incidents, worries and tension may also affect your sex life. You can also do regular jogging, brisk walking, and other exercises like yoga to boost your sex drive. If you feel over stress and depressed you have to find solution to make yourself healthy to increase your desire.
4. Drinking leads to bad experience: If you consume alcohol in limit then its fine but of you will increase intake of alcohol it may spoil your mood in bed. Drinking in excess leads to alteration on hormones and makes you feel less attracted towards sex. It may helps in blood flow in your body but on the other hand it spoils you sex drive which leads to bad experience. To increase your capacity of sex you have to take alcohol less.
5. Hormonal changes may increase your sexual urge: There are some hormonal therapies which help you to increase your sexual desire. There is another therapy known as testosterone therapy which was very successful in the year 2006 this therapy was opted by 1.4 million people. There are medicines available in market known as estrogen cream which will be applied in vagina for sexual arousal and helps in to increase the blood flow for sexual urge.

]]> http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/women-lacking-interest-in-sex.html/feed 0 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/different-aspects-of-masturbation.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/different-aspects-of-masturbation.html#comments Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:40:07 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=401 Masturbation is done manually by males and females to satisfy their sexual urge. It is natural when a male or female feels like attracting or enters into puberty stage they feel like having sex but the age matters too so it is done by males by playing with their pennies but females never enter it into at a very early stage.

1. It is Natural: When human body grows and enters into puberty naturally masturbation takes place. When a male body feels like having sexual relation with female but because of lack of idea about sex they start masturbating. Generally females in the early stage never masturbate until unless they don’t read about it or see somewhere about it. It is natural and safe but parents never give information to children about it. Children are normally under that old intention that masturbation makes them blind and stop their growth.
2. Pleasure within: “The Feminine Mystique” a book by Betty Fridan launched in 1963 which described female masturbation. It also says that women no longer need men to satisfy them they can give pleasure by their own. The G-spot (area of Vagina) was discussed in that book through which they came to know about female masturbation they can also use hands and fingers to satisfy their sexual urge. It came into public and some females found pleasure by fast motion of fingers in G-spot and some got organism by slow motion on that area.
3. Coming Closer with masturbation: Every person have their own way of satisfying own self. It is not always done in private one can also masturbate their partner before sexual intercourse. One should always see what excites their partner and one should perform the best way. Masturbation helps the couple to come closer and it even helps them to create excitement and love in their sex life.
4. Don’t make it an Addiction: Masturbation helps in release of frustration and anxiety and helps in menstrual cramps. But don’t make it a serious addiction it may disturb your daily life. And it may sometimes create serious problem after addiction in that case a person needs counseling and there are some exercises which help a person to come up the problem. It is good but should be done on regular basis if done on daily basis it will be problematic.
5. May lead to lack of interest: Masturbation on daily basis may lead to lack of interest in sex it creates sexual dysfunction in which it create problem to erect during sex. If this happens it may disturb your life which makes you feel that you are not that capable to give orgasm to your partner. So you have to maintain a proper time when you have to masturbate to avoid problems.

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