http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com Astonishing Lifestyle Tue, 27 Jul 2010 06:03:58 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html#comments Sat, 07 Nov 2009 04:45:55 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=612 Mismatch of libidos can happen with most of the passionate couples. It is a point in the relationship where one partner feels over drive for the sex and another lacks interest in sex. This is the most common seen practice in couples which even takes toll on relationship. This happens either a lover can get hurt with the behavior of other partner or sexual desire i.e. if the lover refuses to do. It is even disappointing sometimes.

1. What exactly it is?

   One partner has a high need for sex while another is fine without doing it for many weeks and don’t even miss it. In this case the couple has mismatched libido. Libido is the sexual urge in a person and it could never be one sided. So if your lover is reacting like everyone else you probably get yourself hurt and confused. You will start to think about your sex drive and you will ask questions to your partner.

2. Know the reason

   Sex is a part of life there can be several reasons for which a person lacks interest in sex. Some people rely on sex to keep their marriage happening and if they don’t get it they end up getting hurt. Some people see change in their sex life with the commitment of marriage or engagement. Other reason of lack of interest in sex could children. There may be medical reasons too which lack the people’s sex drive. It is difficult to take a decision without knowing the reason.

3. Getting treated

   This issue can not be discussed with a family doctor. But it is important to discuss this problem and know the medical causes. Getting your partner treated from doctor can boost your partner’s sex drive. It will help to improve your relationship. This may be a cause of hypertension or diabetes in males and menopause can be a reason in females. Physical examinations and proper medications will help the person to gain the sexual urge.

4. Focus on Intimacy

   Every good physician or sexologist will always advice you to focus on intimacy instead of sex. Intimacy is a connection in a relationship which two people share with each other it can either be good or bad. But it is advice to share good intimacy during marriage. By focusing on intimacy in a relation couples improve the quality if sex instead the time or quantity spend during sex.

5. Sex Therapy

   When you come to know about mismatched of libidos try to identify the reasons behind that. You can also take help of sex and marriage therapists which will help you to come up from the problem. Communicate with the therapists freely and get advice for the problem. You can also help yourself by behaving calmly and by not feeling guilty about your sexual desires. Couples can again enjoy sex in their relation with love, desire and passion.

]]> http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/deal-with-mismatch-of-libidos.html/feed 0 http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/women-lacking-interest-in-sex.html http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/women-lacking-interest-in-sex.html#comments Fri, 30 Oct 2009 14:02:41 +0000 admin http://www.astonishinglifestyle.com/?p=421 In this fast phase of life many females are lacking interest in sex this is just because of their hectic schedules family and work pressures which force them to go away from their love life and slowly they lack interest in sex.

1. It is common then people think: This is common among females because of many reasons. Sex and desire are dependent on many factors such as relationships, love, and respect etc. In the beginning it attracts and feels to do many times but after sometime it losses interest. Another reason is of losing interest in sex is pregnancy or menopause it is natural for a women’s drive to get high and low over a period of time. Research shows more then 40 percent of women losses interest in sex because of social reasons.
2. Drugs and medicines can be a cause: Diseases like anemia, arthritis, cancer, diabetes, high blood sugar or cardiovascular conditions may limits your sexual urge. Heavy medicines and drugs may distract your interest in sex. Females have to take proper advices and medications from doctors to boost their sex drive. Heavy drugs may also limit your libido. Proper exercises also help in boosting sex life. To cover up from the problem of lack of sex drive females have to avoid such heavy medicines and drugs.
3. Depression slows down your desire: If your life is full of depression, pressure and stress your sex life will suffer. Past incidents, worries and tension may also affect your sex life. You can also do regular jogging, brisk walking, and other exercises like yoga to boost your sex drive. If you feel over stress and depressed you have to find solution to make yourself healthy to increase your desire.
4. Drinking leads to bad experience: If you consume alcohol in limit then its fine but of you will increase intake of alcohol it may spoil your mood in bed. Drinking in excess leads to alteration on hormones and makes you feel less attracted towards sex. It may helps in blood flow in your body but on the other hand it spoils you sex drive which leads to bad experience. To increase your capacity of sex you have to take alcohol less.
5. Hormonal changes may increase your sexual urge: There are some hormonal therapies which help you to increase your sexual desire. There is another therapy known as testosterone therapy which was very successful in the year 2006 this therapy was opted by 1.4 million people. There are medicines available in market known as estrogen cream which will be applied in vagina for sexual arousal and helps in to increase the blood flow for sexual urge.

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