Some Trouble-Free Ways To Talk With Your Kid About Sex

Many children at the early age if 12 or 13 do sexual intercourse and about 25 percent of children until the age of 15 get the full knowledge and experience of Sex. It will be a good idea if you share your opinions, ideas and experience with your kid before they fall in sexual intercourse at the early age which is very hazardous for health and mind. But many people fright to talk about sex with their kids, there can be many reasons like the feeling of embarrassment, lack of time for kids etc. there are many schools which provide sex education for students that cover the reproduction and functioning of body parts. But don’t wait for this dreadful happens with your child at an early age. Experts say it is good if you share and explain them everything at earlier stages of their life.

Prepare yourself for the questions being asked by the kids. Try to know what is running in your child’s mind and gather information and solve every question of your child. Use correct words for the body parts, and avoids shame refer the correct words for the body organs and see that your child will not feel embarrassed about it. Make this conversation an important and basic conversation before starting to talk about sex.

To avoid confusion think for a good starting point to start your further conversation with your child. Explain the physical aspects of sex and answer the questions in a clear way. Many of the older kids even don’t know some points about sex use accurate words about the sex organs so there will be no chance for false interpretations. Explain your child not to touch the body parts for other people and if they touch their own body part explain them to do this in private and not in public places. Every child should be instructed at the age of 2 to 4 not to touch the private parts.

If your child has entered the age of puberty explain him/her about the change that takes place during this time changes in voice, hair, imagination, and menstruation etc. This is the right time to talk with your child if you have a girl child than explain her about contraception. Talk with your child about the emotional and pleasurable aspects of sex. The emotional issues surround your child’s mind is difficult to deal. Make certain things clear to your child that sex is pleasurable but it can be done after a particular age to stay away from health problems.

Clarify each and everything to your child about pregnancy, sex etc and allow your child to talk and inculcate your child about the respect to be given to the peers. Help your child to build self esteem and tell them to make good friends who will not take them to sexual intercourse. Discuss the teenage with them and tell them the options to stay away from sex in this initial age of their life.

Ask for the question if your child might have in mind and make them comfortable with your advice and answers. Emphasize the topic of discussing sex with them at their teenage. Give them clear idea about the hormonal changes, masturbation, pregnancy, and contraception. If you don’t have answers for several questions than take the help of family physician, therapist, books and internet.  Maintain the love bondage with your child so that they will never feel scared or shy to tell you if they do intercourse at this age. Provide appropriate answers to your child with your support. This will help you and your child to maintain healthy and happy life. “As our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter” as said by Martin Luther King Jr

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